I get alot of listeners calling into the radio show asking about how to squirt…so here is my blog from when I taught myself how….
Squirting 101 – How Kylie learned to squirt!
I remembered Flower Tucci talking about how she said she taught herself to do it so I figured I would give it a try. I had squirted before, my boyfriend could make it happen but it was really difficult and a lot of patience and work and I didn’t know how to harness the feeling. Then later the guys in the biz who knew how to make a girl squirt could get me to do it – Manuel Ferrara, Steve Holmes – but they way they do it is more of a “forced squirting” by putting extreme hard and fast pressure on the g-spot. Though this looks cool on camera in the movies, it is not as enjoyable for the woman. It wasn’t until I was bored late one summer night that I decided to give that Njoy toy a test drive. And I’ll be damned if it didn’t work!
Njoy Stainless Steel Dildo http://njoytoys.com/products/purewand.php
I just laid on my back comfortably, head on a pillow and a couple towels under my ass. I inserted the large end and found my g-spot (which is sort-of behind my pelvic bone) and just started working it. It felt good so I kept going, then suddenly my pussy was filled up with fluid and as I fucked myself I flooded the towel…it just poured out of me.
There was no way I moved my body, I just moved the toy mostly (the weight of it is wonderful) and instead of tightening my muscles I tried to relax them. Like you have heard it does feel a little like you have to pee, so I just relaxed and didn’t try to stop the feeling. It was different from the traditional clitoral orgasm I am used to, not as strong, but I could definitely feel it. It tastes sweet.
It was actually so cool that I immediately called and related the entire story to my best girlfriend, who that same night did what I described and had exactly the same results!
Since then I have practiced and learned to recognize the feeling and worked on technique. I have tried other toys but nothing works as well as that Njoy wand. I learned the right moment to push/squeeze so that I can actually “squirt” instead of just “flooding”. When I am getting close if I touch my clit with a vibrator (I prefer the Hitachi) I will have a much better orgasm and actually squirt more, and I will get some distance out of it.
The amount of water I drink (over the course of the day, not immediately before) does affect how much I can squirt – normally I drink approx 60 oz. of water per day – and if I am hydrated I will flood the bed several times in one session, if I am not that hydrated or it’s a hot day, there won’t be as much fluid.
One night I was bent over the bed, standing on the floor, fucking my ass with a toy and I started feeling that familiar feeling, I realized that I was hitting my g-spot through my ass. I kept going and suddenly my inner thighs and legs were wet and I was dripping. It was not as much fluid as with the Njoy but then again the contact with my g-spot was less direct. At that point I was so turned on and that coupled with fucking my ass…I came…hard. Never touched my clit.
I have heard women say that once the waterworks are turned on, it’s hard to turn them off. I now squirt often, usually while getting my ass fucked – for some reason the place my g-spot is located is stimulated best by either the extreme curve of the Njoy Wand in my pussy or with a cock hitting it through my ass. Every woman is different so it will take some time and experimentation to figure out what is the right combination for you.
In the movie Black Rayne, I squirt repeatedly all over Amber’s face using the Njoy/Hitachi combination. It’s hot!
I think LEARNING to squirt is something a girl should learn to do by herself, alone. The added pressure of someone in the room, trying to help or not, makes it more distracting. Once you learn to do it, and continue to practice, you will find it easier and easier, and you will be excited to show off!
If you have success and learn to squirt please let me know…send me an email, call into the radio show! I would love to know if this works for anyone else. Likewise if you have suggestions or want to share something that worked for you, please add your comments!
If you have questions please post them here as well and I will answer to the best of my knowledge.
PS. The above is based on my experiences, I do not claim to be an expert.